Your wedding left you feeling like a million bucks, but nothing can bring you back to reality more than having writer’s block when writing your wedding thank you cards. Skipping the cards is not an option, as your guests came from miles around to show their support. Bust through the writer’s block with these handy tips outlining what to say in a wedding thank you card.
Overview of What to Say in a Wedding Thank You Card
Before you get down to specifics, a general overview gives you the basic rundown on what to include and what to leave out.
What to Include
- Thanks for attending your wedding
- Even more thanks for the wedding gift
- How you’ll use the gift, if applicable
- Personal touch by mentioning something about the person
- Anything positive that’ll put a smile on the recipient’s face
What Not to Include
- Vaguely referring to the gift
- The exact amount of money given as a gift
- That you’ve already returned or exchanged the gift
- Anything negative that’ll put a grimace on the recipient’s face
Examples of What to Say in a Wedding Thank You Card
Snag a straightforward formula for writing a thank you note by simply going down the list in the “What to Include” section. Your note ends up with about three sentences:
- Thanks for attending as well as the gift
- How you felt receiving the gift, how you’ll use it
- How the gift enhanced your lives, as did the recipient’s presence at your wedding
Example Text for Gift
Dear Lori and Sam,
Thank you for being part of our wedding, as well as for the fabulous wedding gift. John and I are thrilled with the crystal candle holders and have already put them on our mantle. They help make our new home warm and cozy, the same way our hearts felt seeing you on our big day.
Best,
Ellie and John
Example Text for Gift of Money
Dear Lori and Sam,
Thank you for being part of our wedding, as well as for the generous wedding gift. Thanks to you, John and I were able to book a week’s worth of massages on our honeymoon. Your gift left us relaxed and happy, with the same level of happiness we felt seeing you on our big day.
Best,
Ellie and John
Example Text if Guests Were Unable to Attend
Dear Lori and Sam,
Thank you for the magnificent wedding gift. John and I have already put the espresso machine to great use, and we’ll think of you every time we take a sip. We missed you at our wedding, but we look forward to other opportunities to celebrate together in the future.
Best,
Ellie and John
Thank You Card Options
Choosing thank you cards that match your wedding invitations and theme is one option. Another is going for thank you cards that are straightforward yet eye-catching. An attractive and sophisticated design, like bold stripes, can do the job beautifully, as can sending a customized thank you card that features a photo of your wedding on the front.
Whatever style of wedding thank you card you choose, your message inside is what counts the most. These tips can help ensure your message expresses your thanks in a heartfelt way that makes the recipients smile. Shop PaperDirect for all your wedding or other stationary needs.